Je pense J'ai finally found a reliable answer for this.
Win+A brings up the action center
If you dont see "connect" vous devrez peut-être click expand
Click Connect and then vous pouvez force connect your Bluetooth device.
For those that like shortcuts, Win+K from anywhere in Windows takes you directly to the "Connect" page and allows you to click your device and connect.
Why this isn't anywhere in the devices or Bluetooth connection settings pages I will never know. Cependant, Win+K is about as quick as a shortcut as I could ask for so this is solved for me.